Spreading Joy One Card at a Time
Christmas isn’t the only great time to send cards. Easter (Resurrection Sunday) & Spring-themed cards are a fun way for your kids to connect with family, friends, neighbors, and church members! We are sending some of these cards and postcards to older friends living alone and to cheer on our pastors and teachers who are working extra hard right now. Also, your local nursing home may be accepting mail for residents or staff! Make your own, or use ours!
There are so many amazing free resources online right now! Thanks to all these and others who are providing free educational and entertainment opportunities for families! I’ve been gathering the ones I come across, and I’m doing my best to keep listings and links updated. Also, know that we have tried out some but not all of these resources. Resources are organized into general categories:
- Art & Design
- Bible
- History & Places
- Science & Animals
- Stories & Fun
- Early Learning
The Struggle is Real, Right?
When our kids jump on their video games, phones, computers, movies or other devices/screens, our heart cringes a little and we wish they were doing something productive or at least healthy or fun. But while our heart is bugging us, our exhausted brain and body is just happy to have a break from the whining or the noise or the attention.
But as we well know from our own time management issues, a “little while” on a screen very quickly multiplies into a lot of time, and even the most wholesome of content on a screen isn’t a healthy or happy way to do life. When screen time takes over, we eventually we see it in our kids’ attitudes, discontentment, and health.
If you’re like me, you may feel that a line has been crossed, and we can’t go back to the good ole days. But we can. It takes a lot of intention, may require creativity, and probably isn’t going to go over well at first, but it’s possible. So, if you are like us, and feel like screens are taking over your kids’ childhood, here is one idea to help us get started reclaiming a healthier balance. It took me ten minutes, index cards, and a marker to create Screen Bucks for my kids (the stickers were just to make them cute :). I have to tell you, when I am faithful to enforce and monitor this plan, it’s totally been working! It’s simple, but it has so many benefits!
Do you have a special veteran you are honoring or maybe you want to send memorable mail to someone for a special birthday, anniversary, or other occasion? My grandpa (now age 94) was in WWII, so this year we made a banner to send him. We made it with copied photos, messages, artwork, and scrapbook paper all cut to 1/4 sheet size and threaded together using a hole punch and ribbon. It folded easily and neatly for mailing. It’s a fun and thoughtful way to say, “We remember. We are thankful. We love you.”
My daughter loves to cook, bake, and experiment in the kitchen. She also loves to use her imagination and hands to create and invent. On top of that, she is great at using my phone to make videos/movies. So… it only stands to reason that she should make a video about a miniature stove she made! Watch this video, created by Ava, to find out about the materials she used and to get some tips for how to make and use your own miniature stove for just a couple dollars. Also, below you’ll find some photos of her adorable and tasty tiny food successes!
Here is a fun craft for autumn or really any time of year! We first made these when my daughter was three years old, but we pulled this idea out again recently, and made some autumn decorations. I enjoy making them, too! We need to make some for Christmas gifts! These make a great craft for the whole family and they are also a thoughtful gift idea if you want to add them to your guest’s place settings on Thanksgiving!
Our church’s ladies’ group is studying the importance of friendship, and as I ponder and work to apply what we are learning, I keep thinking of a frequent enemy of growing friendships that we should all guard against – I’m talking about our tendency to assume.
As my oldest child experiences the middle school years, I find myself needing to transition and develop right along with her. One of the ways adjustment is needed is in the area of our daily routine. While a routine provides necessary structure, my child’s growing maturity reminds me that it is also time for me to introduce some freedoms. This is the perfect time for me to make adjustments, because she is mature enough to handle some freedom, but she is young enough to be trained in how to manage that freedom.
Giving our children structure and also giving them freedom may sound like an oxymoron, but in actuality, these important but opposite elements, which we the parents measure and determine, can and should work together hand-in-hand.
Why are both important? A structured day is necessary to our child’s daily success and sanity, while freedom to make choices and manage time and behaviors is important to experiencing eventual independence and happiness.
We are several BJU Press‘ Video courses this year, and one thing that I’m loving is that it is freeing up my time to do the fun, creative teaching that my heart wanted to do in previous years, but my energy-level just couldn’t deliver lately. But this year, I have had more flexibility thanks to this program. The Three Branches of Government were introduced during BJU’s Heritage Studies 4 course. It was well-explained and the corresponding worksheet was great, but there is still no way my children will remember the three branches of government without reviewing it frequently. How can they review in a fast, flexible, and re-usable way? Ta-da!… our Build & Remember Puzzle Chart! And next year, we will pull it out again for review, as my daughter delves into Notgrass’ Uncle Sam and You civics course!
During our homeschooling journey from kindergarten through now middle school, my kids have always thrived on two elements of scheduling:
1) The Day’s Expectations: My kids like knowing at the beginning of the day what is going to happen or what is expected of them. Seeing the plan helps them realize that their school work will eventually end.
2) Completed Work Recognized: My kids are more motivated during the school day when they can see their progress and feel that they have accomplished something.
The way I accomplish this has changed over the years, but some form of it is always a success. Let me show you what I did for the younger grades and then what I’m doing for the older elementary and middle school years, and then adapt these ideas to work for your family! Take advantage of the free printable chart (no card information needed)!