Sweet Forgiveness

Close Encounter:
I remember two times in particular that I wanted so much to be closer to God, but I just couldn’t seem to get there. Both times, God revealed to me that I had unforgiveness in my heart that had to be taken care of first. That was the beginning of making my heart right with God, besides making it right toward those He revealed to me (and yes, there were more than one). He did the work when I submitted myself to Him. And afterward I reaped the benefits!

Biblical Example:
In 1 Samuel, we can read about the toll unforgiveness took on King Saul. He became bitter because the people praised young David more than they praised him. From that point, Saul’s life became worse and worse. He grew insecure, violent, and irrational. Saul’s life ended in ruin and disgrace, because he never dealt with his bitterness.

The Truth:
If you have asked Jesus to live in your heart, you know the forgiveness He has freely given you. Therefore, we must forgive others, as well. In fact, if we don’t forgive others, it hinders our own relationship with Christ (Luke 6:37). Forgiveness is consciously releasing someone from any debts that you feel they owe you because of hurts they have caused you. Unforgiveness is the root of bitterness; and bitterness will destroy you.

The Simplicity:
Forgiveness begins in the heart, and God wants to help you. With your heart and ears open to God, ask Him to point out to you any unforgivenesss you have toward anyone. When He reveals it, ask him to help you forgive that person. Give all the hurt and struggle to Him. Let Him forgive you for not giving forgiveness to the one you are praying about. Once He has begun cleaning all the junk out of you, then take your heart-change one step further…pray blessings for that person. Also, ask God to give you wisdom for how you should treat and be involved with them. And now thank Him for the forgiveness He freely gives you and the strength He gives for you to do the same.

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One comment

  • Anonymous January 17, 2007  

    Appreciated everything you said about forgiveness. All so true and good to be reminded of. Thanks for the definition of what forgiveness is. That was helpful, too. Your chosen Biblical example of Saul pertinent to unforgiveness and bitterness was very on target. Thanks for everything you said.