Are You a Smudge Stick?

God isn’t trying to confuse His children any more than I am trying to confuse Ava or Landon. God doesn’t tell us on one day that we should watch what we say, and then on the next day tell us that we can shoot our mouths off. I don’t tell Ava that she can jump on the couch on some days and not on other days. She would always be confused, never knowing if she was allowed to jump on the couch or if she would be punished if she jumped on the couch. I am not trying to trick her. I want her to know what she can expect all of the time. She is not to jump on the couch. If she does, she will be punished. It’s for her own good. I don’t want her to get hurt by jumping on the couch. And I also don’t want her to waste her energy trying to figure out if she should try jumping on the couch today or not.

Wisdom Outweighs Reasoning
My wisdom outweighs Ava’s reasoning. “But Mommy, I’m a kangaroo!” is not going to change my mind. She is still not to jump on the couch. “But Mommy, this way I can see up high!” is not going to change my mind either. It’s silly to think that her reasons for wanting to jump on the couch could ever justify her and give her cause to jump on the couch and gain my approval for it. Isn’t it silly to think that we could ever justify ourselves and give ourselves cause to do what we want – nevermind what God says – and gain His approval for it anyway?

When In Doubt… Just Do What’s Right
Fewer things are “gray” than what we like to admit. I can think of TONS of issues, even in the Christian community, that are considered “gray.” I doubt that God sees them as gray. If we seek Him (truly), He will help us see what is black and what is white. If you find yourself turning into a smudge stick on a particular issue/topic, then chances are that you are trying to justify something that is not God’s best for you. Why do you want that? Give it up and do what is best.

My Own Little Smudges
I am a pretty guarded television watcher. I don’t watch just anything. But recently, there was one particular show that I had been watching, that was very entertaining but had some “stuff” in it that was wrong. I was a smudge stick for several weeks. I told myself…

“All the shows have something in them that I disagree with. What makes this show any worse than them.”
“Maybe in the next episode or two, they’ll drop the bad stuff.”
“I have more strength and discernment than the average Joe. I can watch this, know that it is wrong, and know that I won’t become like that.”
“Everyone else, including many other Christians, whom I know personally, watch this show.”

Maybe you can relate. Then one day, I had enough. I made the decision to listen to the Holy Spirit telling me that He didn’t want me watching it, listen to the Bible, which tells us what we should be thinking about (Philippians 4:8), and quit being stupid. That show was adding no value to my life. It was making me more tolerant of and numb to things that were clearly wrong (which only leads to more smudging). And it was actually hindering my walk with the Lord. I was still walking with Him, but how can my relationship with Him not be negatively affected when I am being disobedient? When I turned the show off for the very last time, I felt really good. I felt cleaned off. It felt good to shake off the junk and it felt good to know that I was pleasing the Lord.

Accept the Challenge
“Gray” areas come in all shapes and sizes. The one thing they have in common, is they do not get us any closer to God and they carry with them the great risk of weakening our walk with Him. Walking in the delusional gray is not a healthy or a happy place to be.

Perhaps there is already something in your life that shouldn’t be there or something missing that should be present. God has already shown you what it is through the Bible or laid it on your heart through His Holy Spirit (By the way, the Bible and the Holy Spirit never contradict), but you have been trying to smudge the line. Now is the time to pray and turn it over to the Lord.

If there is not already something in your life that you have been trying to turn into a muddy shade of gray, you may be tempted to do so sometime down the road. Make up your mind today that when that time comes, you won’t hesitate, you won’t try to justify, you won’t try to make it a gray area. Decide now that you will quickly do what God has told you to do. Period.

For Our Good